Love is hard. (Like Scalia's ax-helve for grading blogs)

     In Jhumpa Lahiri’s The Namesake, Nikhil goes through three separate relationships: Ruth, Maxine, and Moushumi. These relationships range from seriousness due to Nikhil’s growing maturity throughout the novel. Each relationship is a testament to how much Nikhil grows as a character and how he becomes more in touch with his personal identity.
     The big beginning: Ruth. When he first meets Ruth, Nikhil had never been in a serious relationship. When he met her on the train they immediately struck up conversation. Ruth was a way for Nikhil to become someone new. She had not previously known his as Gogol, nor was she a Bengali. This was his opportunity to try out the American lifestyle that he so desperately wanted. However, being the young couple they were, when they were separated from each other their love faded. They were not together long enough to have enough memories to look back on when they missed each other at night. The extension of Ruth’s stay in England sealed the deal for the death of their relationship. While intense in the beginning, it was not meant to last. When dealing with a long distance relationship like that, there needs to be a large enough base to look back on. To love. So once you are together again, it seems as if no time as passed at all. This was the first failure of Nikhil in the love department. Both Nikhil and Ruth fell out of love.
     The sequel: Maxine, or Max for short. This was the true American. Owning a townhouse in the suburbs, having a vacation property in another state. Nikhil was still looking for an escape from his Bengali heritage, he did not hate it or anything to that extreme, he just refused to take part in traditions that he felt were not a part of him. So he instead participated in American traditions with Max. This worked for a while. He was happy and she was happy. However, with the death of his father, Nikhil changed. He did not grow to hate Max or anything to that effect, but he did begin to grow out of love for her. She didn’t like how she was uninvited to many of Ganguli family events and this began to turn her off of Nikhil. His father’s death had turned him cold to love. This could be because he subconsciously blamed Max for taking away time that could have been spent with Ashoke before his death, but the novel never explicitly says why Nikhil falls out of love with Max. This time is was just Nikhil to fall out of love.
     The final act: Moushumi. This one was a Bengali. After his father’s death, Nikhil had a newfound love and admiration for his family and culture. While still not wanting to fully partake in all the traditions that being a Bengali entailed, he loved being a part of his family again. His mother had pushed him to meet up with Moushumi, to his displeasure he did. However, to his surprise he actually really liked being with her. This relationship got really serious. So serious it turned into a marriage. A somewhat traditional Bengali wedding. Both the bride and groom were wearing traditional Bengali wedding dress, and the food was Indian. This wedding was the culmination of Nikhil’s journey of trying to prevent himself from partaking in his Bengali heritage. This time Nikhil was very happy but his lover was secretly not. Nikhil kept telling himself that everything was fine and that the two of them were happy together. However, much to his dismay, he finds out that Moushumi had been having an affair with a long lost lover of hers. His journey had reached rock bottom. Finally, it was just Moushumi to fall out of love.
     At first it was both, then just Nikhil, then his lover. His love life was integral to the growing of his character, as he became increasingly aware of his own identity. Was he a Bengali or an American? Everything in this book comes back to that. When is it right to abandon those you love for something else you love? Nikhil has to deal with that his entire life. Is it right to live the way you want, but leaving your parent’s wishes behind?

Millions of families suffer every year. (Go to Danya's for the first part)

     In Jhumpa Lahiri’s The Namesake, identity is a huge part of what makes up the character’s motivation and personalities. In the novel, cultural clash and traditional values plays a large role of the many families that Nikhil joins throughout. Nikhil has two families throughout the novel: his own and Maxine’s. Nikhil also suffers from his own personal identity crisis throughout the entire novel that isn’t resolved until the very end.
     Within the Ganguli family is where most of the culture clash is centralized. His parents are entirely Bengali, but they also believe their children to be Bengali. This is where the trouble starts. Sonia and Nikhil see themselves as American, not Bengali. They like to participate in American traditions and fun, not the events their parents have brought over from India. Christmas celebrations become a staple at the Ganguli household, however Ashima tries to keep it as secular as possible to avoid the religious meaning behind the holiday. She simply wants her children to enjoy the American way of life, and with that comes, Christmas: Hallmark Edition. During Nikhil’s childhood birthdays, he always had two. One for his American friends and one for a Bengali celebration. This was the difference between the two generations: the need to constantly come back to their heritage. Sonia and Nikhil see no need to surround themselves with other Bengalis, like their parents do. Ashoke and Ashima seem to be friends with every Bengali on the East Coast but their children couldn’t seem to care less about the heritage of their friends. The older generation is still clinging on to the past, while the younger generation is looking towards the future by becoming more American, since they were born and raised here. Nikhil’s identity is torn, does he want to please his parents by acting like a Bengali or does he want to please himself by being an American?
     Within Maxine’s family, Nikhil discovers something he never had known: lack of responsibility or duty to one’s parents. From Nikhil’s point of view, Maxine seems to be able do as she pleases, her parents will be happy either way. The couple can live in Maxine’s parents’ home, eat Maxine’s parents’ food, and go on vacation with Maxine’s parents without worrying about criticism or following certain rules. This is an American family, Nikhil comes to realize. This is what he has been striving for his whole life. But he comes to realize that this isn’t his world. He doesn’t belong living this life nor does he want to. After the death of his father, he realizes that his place is with his family not with someone else’s. His identity is called into question once again. Is he a Ganguli or a Ratliff? This leads him to find love with Moushumi, a Bengali that he met when he was a child (I know Scalia, the love blog will come next but don’t get mad at me if I say similar things in both blogs). He returns to what his family wants and what his culture requires. He ends up marrying Moushumi because he truly believes he has found who he is. He believes himself to be a Bengali.
     However, he is proven wrong once again. Moushumi has an affair with a long lost lover, this ends in divorce for Nikhil. The path that he thought was right for him had just slapped him in the face. Neither the American life nor the Bengali life seemed to be who he truly was. While it is never explicitly revealed as to what is best for Nikhil, as the novel ends shortly after his divorce, I believe that he must learn to accept that there is no perfect culture for him to identify with. His journey ends when he learns to accept himself, not what others think of him. Cultural identity is extremely important to him but he understands that his father did not choose America to live in because he wanted to be American, he chose to come here because he wanted to be the best version of himself and America would allow him to do that. It’s not about the culture, it’s about who you are.

Take me to your leader. (Get it? Alien-ation)

          In Juhmpa Lahiri's The Namesake, there are many instances in which the main characters experience a sort of alienation from the rest of the world. Whether it be through the emigration from their home country or leaving their immediate family for the first time for college or work. Lahiri uses these moments of alienation in each of the character's lives to have a chance to let them evolve, grow, or show an aspect of their personality previously unknown to the audience.
     The biggest use of alienation in the novel would be the Ganguli's separation from their homeland. This mostly pertains to Ashoke and Ashima, as they were the only ones to previously live in India; their children, Sonia and Nikhil, visit India often but have no sense of home when there. Ashoke and Ashima have both come to America in order to pursue Ashoke's career as an engineer. Ashima feels the brunt of this alienation from her homeland because she feels as if she has no purpose in America. Afterall, she is only there because of the arranged marriage to Ashoke. At the beginning of the novel, she is often left home alone when Ashoke works at the university or when the kids are at all school. It is shown that often feels homesick for the country that holds her parents, cousins, and other loved ones. On their periodic trips back to India, Ashima and Ashoke are shown as happy and outgoing as opposed to their reserved nature back in America. The alienation from their real home has changer their personalities and forces them to take on new lives.
     Later on in the novel, following the death of Ashoke, Nikhil is sent to his father’s apartment to collect or dispose of his things. He sits there, alone, isolated from the outside world. His girlfriend, Maxine, calls and tells him to not stay in his father’s apartment but to get a hotel room, a request which he ignores. This is the moment that spells the end for their relationship. Nikhil feels alone, as he should, and the one person trying to reach out and help him find his way in the darkness is ignored. The moment in his father’s apartment, offers Nikhil a form of clarity that being with others would not allow. Lahiri uses Nikhil’s isolation from his family and girlfriend to change his character for the better. He seems to regret leaving his family so often, this is a cliche story of how a child seems to have no time for his family but then before they know it, it’s too late.
     When Gogol goes to the courthouse to legally change his name to Nikhil, he is alone. The narrator points out how the event is not ceremonious nor is there anyone there to celebrate with him. He simply tells the judge that he hates his name and he request is accepted. He is completely isolated at this moment. Lahiri again uses alienation here to allow for a large change in one of her character’s. The name that Nikhil abhorred for so long is no longer with him, a huge turning point in his life and yet he is alone. Even after this name change Nikhil sometimes shows symptoms of isolation. He is technically a new person. When he looks at his old schoolwork, it all has the name Gogol written on top, not Nikhil. Nikhil has not yet lived, and now Gogol is dead. He is alone in this new world he has created for himself.
     It seems that Lahiri likes to use alienation or isolation during important events in the character’s lives. Ashima is alone when Ashoke dies, Nikhil is alone in his Father’s apartment, the Ganguli’s are alone in an unfamiliar country that they now live in. Alienation is an important tool used by Lahiri to show that great change has happened in one of the characters, usually through sadness. However, at the end of the novel, Nikhil is found in his childhood room, alone. He is happy because he can finally read the book his father had bought for him so long ago. This is the one time alienation/isolation is used in a positive manner in the novel and yet it still shows a big change in Nikhil’s character. He has finally come to accept his birth name. Previously he had refused to read any of Gogol’s work because for whatever reason he felt that if he did, it would be admitted defeat to the name he so despised. Now here he is, reading Gogol’s work, thinking of his father, happy.

Baby don't hurt me.

     What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me. No more. What is love in Twelfth Night? Well, I think it's a joke. I only think I've read about three of his plays (Macbeth, Hamlet, and possibly A Midsummer Nights Dream). Yet another example of the school system failing me, according to Scalia. So I'm just going to assume Twelfth Night is very unique in the sense in which it portrays love. In Romeo and Juliet, I hear it is very tragic. The two main characters fall into a forbidden love and then die for each other three days later. Honestly sounds pretty far fetched and stupid to me. But then again I've never actually read it (I've seen Gnomeo and Juliet tho so that's basically the same as reading the play). In Twelfth Night love is portrayed as being very funny. Love triangles, homosexuals and cross-dressing all wrapped up into a nice little package. Shakespeare at his finest.
     When taking a step back, at least at the point where we're at in the play, love can be seen from two points of view. From the audience's or from the characters'. The audience knows that Orsino likes Olivia, but Olivia like Viola/Cesario, but Viola/Cesario likes Orsino. What a conundrum. It's supposed to seem funny because we know that while each thinks that no one with love them back they actually do have a secret admirer. However, Viola/Cesario has recently come to the realization that Olivia has a crush on him. We'll have to see how that plays out. This is also funny for the audience because we know that Viola/Cesario is actually only Viola. A female. And yet the Lady Olivia has fallen into a bit of a crush for another female. In Shakespearean times I guess this was funny. At least it was supposed to be.
     From the characters' point of view it is seen as very tragic. They can not be with the ones they love because nobody seems to reciprocate their feelings. Olivia has to constantly turn Orsino down every time he tries to woo her into loving him. After a while it could be seen as quite pathetic from the audience's point of view. However, Orsino still has intense feelings for Olivia; her saying no is not just going to flip a switch in his brain to stop liking her. Love does not work that way. Orsino even goes as far to say that no one can ever love someone as strongly as he loves Olivia. How tragic. So, in conclusion, love is portrayed in the play from two different perspectives: the comedic and the tragic. It all depends on what point of view you look at it with.
     Now let's forget about Twelfth Night for a little bit. Let's look at real life. Are there different kinds of love? Yes. Now I'm not about to hit you with a bunch of the "7 or whatever different kinds of loves" from a freshmen year psych textbook. I'm just going to be sharing my opinion on the matter. I think there are about 3 main different kinds of love: familial, romantic, and love for an action/object. I think those are the big 3 but there are definitely subsets within each main one. I'm mostly just going to focus on the first two because the last one doesn't really matter in this context.
     Familial love is all about the love you may or may not have for you parents, siblings, those closest to you, your dog, or even your pet fish, Brian, and the love that all these things or people may or may not have for you. You do not have to be related to someone to feel familial love (That's kind of a different argument of whether or not your family is your blood or those you choose to surround yourself with). Familial love is extremely strong. It is not easily broken. Especially parental and blood love. That type of love is nearly impossible to break once established. You can mess up again, and again, and again but your parents will continue to love you even if they do not show it. Even in the Big Sick, Kumail's parents decide to disown him but in the end we see that his mother still makes him his favorite food for his cross country journey. Again, this type of love (once established) is very hard to break. The thing that makes this love special is that you can both be unable to choose who you feel it for or you can. Friends can be turned into family even without blood relation if you have familial love for them.
     Romantic love is slightly different. You have to pick this. Hang on let me rephrase that. You might not have a choice in the matter because sometimes we love those we can not have. What I mean is that this type of love has nothing to do with blood relations. This is also joined with sexual feelings. If you have intense feelings for someone but not sexual you may either just be asexual or have very strong familial love for them. This type of love tends to be the most tragic because of the dangers of it being not reciprocated. This is where Twelfth Night comes in. It is just a buffet of not reciprocated love. This type of love tends to be very idealized within a person if it is not acted upon. For example, while Orsino believes he has very strong feelings for Olivia, if Olivia and him were to get together he may find she is not what he thought she was. This type of love also tends to expire more quickly than familial. Sometimes romantic love just runs out. That is why I believe it is the weakest of the two I talked about.
     I have one more love to talk about and it is the strongest of all loves there are. My love for Keith Scalia. It will live on into eternity and will never die. Now if only he would say "I love you" back.

Sweet Bird of a Boring Play

     So let's start off by saying I did not really enjoy the play. It is to my understanding that most if not every person in our class did not enjoy the play. In my opinion, it didn't really go anywhere and it wasn't very entertaining. However, when reading the criticisms (I didn't know what criticism meant in this context so I looked it up. According to Google it is the analysis and judgment of the merits and faults of a literary or artistic work.) of the play I began to think more about the inherent message behind the characters and events rather than the narrative's main story. When reading each criticism I had a hard time looking past my initial thoughts on how pointless the play seemed to be at first glance. I still hold that opinion however, each essay actually gave me ideas on what I should actually write on the AICE test. I was really at a loss for what I would even talk about on the test but this really helped.
     Ok now that we got that out of the way, let me start by saying I don’t fully agree with any of the criticisms. However, I do for the most part like the approach Annette Petrusso took in her criticism of the play (I feel like I’m overusing the word criticism). I like the idea that Chance’s whole character arc and struggle is based upon the fact that he is denying his own reality. He comes back to St. Cloud in order to try to regain his former glory because deep down he knows that things have not worked out in his life the way he expected them to. Petrusso talks about how Chance is trying to create this false illusion of himself to the townspeople, he wants to make them think that he made it big, even though the “Princess purchased his clothes, the wad of money he flashes in act 2 is hers, and the Cadillac he drives is hers.” Essentially, he is in denial of how much a failure he truly is. He thinks that just because he signed the contract with Princess it will change everything. Sadly, he's used up all of his chances to truly make it big.
     He’s too old to start now and Princess knows it. I would also like to point out that I do agree with Foster Hirsch’s assessment on the point of Princess’ character as she is “necessary only as a thematic reinforcement of Chance’s lust for success and his fear of growing older.” However, I would like to add to that and say that she also serves as Chance’s last chance to become a star. When she leaves for Hollywood after she finds out that her comeback was a success, Chance elects to stay behind and accept his fate. I disagree with Hirsch when he says Princess only represents Chance’s lust for success and fear of aging, I believe she also represents how much denial Chance is in but in the reverse. She sees herself as a failure, doomed to never succeed again. However, she turned out to be a huge success in her new movie. Chance on the other hand sees himself as someone who has yet to make it big but has the potential to be on top, to be the greatest. He thinks that one big movie with the Princess’ contract is all it will take for him to make it big. This shows that Chance is in extreme denial. He has no talent and no chance at making it big. I believe that Princess and Chance are supposed to mirror each other which brings me to the point about the mirror.
     When Chance forces Princess to look in the mirror she can finally see clearly who she is: “Alexandra Del Lago, artist and star!”, Chance on the other hand is nothing. Alice Griffin says that the mirror is meant to show the difference between the two characters; however, I disagree. I believe the mirror is supposed to emphasize the amount of denial Chance truly is in. In a way the mirror breaks down the grand illusion he has created for himself, but it’s not the mirror that directly causes this. It is Princess that attempts to wake Chance up out of his dream world. Princess says to Chance: “But you? You’ve come back to a town you were born in, to a girl that won’t see you because you put such rot in her body” that she had to get a hysterectomy. Chance is still in denial even when staring himself straight in the mirror. I think this really backs up Petrusso’s claims that Chance is in denial of his life and how it has turned out.
     Anyway, I enjoyed reading the essays and I really think they offered great perspective on how to better interpret the play and write about it for the AICE test. For the most part I believe the three authors had some similar opinions on parts of the play but the prompt forced me into finding parts from the two other essays that I, and therefore Petrusso, disagree with. The reason I picked Petrusso’s essay is because I thought it made the most sense without stretching the play too thin attempting to look for meaning. I agree with the main points made by each author but I found the way the other two went about backing it up to be unbelievable at parts. Ok well I’m pretty tired right now and I’ve been writing this for about two hours. Love you Scalia, hope you’re having a good weekend. Or week. It really depends when you read this.

Ok but Boss is also misunderstood... Lol jk he's a jerk

     The first scene of Act 2 has introduced us to a little bit more of the plot that the play will follow. It establishes the reason Chance left St. Cloud to begin with and also allows us to gain some insight on the status of his reputation with those that know him. For the most part, the scene introduces 2 main characters: Boss Finley and Heavenly. There are two other characters here but I got the impression that they really are not that important to the overall plot, at least not as of yet. So, for the most part, I'm going to be talking about Boss and his beloved daughter: Heavenly.

Boss fits his name

     He's the boss. From a glace, he is the stereotypical rich, politically savvy father that tries to maintain his pristine image from the public. In order to maintain this image he has adopted a very controlling personality in terms of his family and lifestyle. This public view of him is extrememly important in order to maintain his current lifestyle. To put it simply, he's living the good life. He has a house on the Gulf (or at least we think it's on the Gulf) with a nice little boat. He's wealthy and he knows it. He uses his wealth to influence those around him and to make sure nothing interferes with his life. Boss has this control issue about him that everything has to be perfect in his life and if something isn't up to his specifications then he feels a need to fix. From a certain point of view you can perceive his actions as just an over concerened father. He worries about his children's public appearance and even went as far as to pay five grand just to hide his son's little stag party (it's basically a bachelor party). Again, from a particular perspective this could be seen as caring for his son but when you look deeper in it may not be just that. What he might actually be doing is protecting his own image by preventing the public from having a negative view of his children. This would adversely affect his own life so the big question is: does he care about his children or just himself? I think there's two possibilites here. 1) Boss is simply an overbearing father who is trying to control his daughter's life and shape it in the way he sees best. He wants her to marry the person that will make her life the most financially stable and secure. Or 2) Boss is looking out for his own status. He needs to control his children's lives in order to secure the stability of his own. He even goes as far to say later on when speaking to Heavenly about her going into a convent, "a daughter in a convent would politcally ruin me." Either way he has a control issue.

Good Heavens

     We get the chance to learn a little bit more about Chance's love interest in this scene. Previously, we thought that Heavenly was the one that didn't want to be with Chance. Now we know that it was her father that didn't want her with Chance. I really only have gathered one thing from her personality so far: she really just wants to be with Chance. Her heart continues to lie with him even after all these years.

I have the impression that Heavenly has a very strong female personality, especially for the time period. However, her father is just so overbearing that she can't seem to get what she wants out of life. She has the aspirations but not quite enough strength to go through with it. Or simply her father has that much more strength to keep her in check.

Tom and Nonnie

     As of now these two are background characters. There's not much to say about either of them. Especially Aunt Nonnie. From what I've gather Tom is just the sad puppy that's trying to please its master. In this case his master is his father. He realizes that his father cares about Heavnely more than him and he tries at every turn to try and please Boss. However, he continues to just be a srew up that his father has to take care of all the time. This is something he seems to not realize. His character may become important later on as it is implied that he has a plan to remove Chance from St. Cloud, so until then we can only guess about his true personality.

     Nonnie literally has about ten lines of dialogue so there is an extremely small amount to go off of. From what I can see she is the kind aunt that nobody really seems to give the time of day. I think she's the type of person to always think of family first and that "love conquers all." But until we get her to talk a little more that thought is really only a guess.

Chance is misunderstood. Change my mind. (title ripped from the creative mind of Teagan Havemeier)

     Chance is misunderstood

     Let's start off by saying that I will not be adhering to the common opinion that Chance is a jerk. At first glance, yes, his actions during the first scene would definitely be considered rude, obnoxious, or even downright cruel. However, I believe many people reading this are suffering from the psychological effect of only remembering the bad things about a person and forgetting the good things. It goes a little something like this: let's say you go your whole day with several people complimenting your new haircut. Then out of nowhere someone says it sucks. What are you more likely to remember or take to heart the most? The several people that complimented it or the one person that said it sucked? Another example could be a long time friend that says one thing that really hurts. What are you going to remember? All the good things or the one thing that really hurt you? Just because Chance says some mean things, his actions (in my opinion) outweigh the way he speaks to Princess.

 
     If you couldn't already tell, my initial impression of Chance is that deep down inside he's a nice guy but his methods could use some work. Some of what I'm about to say could be taken as a bit of a stretch but bear (yes that's the proper bear/bare, I looked it up) with me and you might understand where I'm coming from. Remember when Williams specifically said this when describing Chance helping Princess back to bed: "He assists her to the bed. There is an unmistakable sympathy in his manner, however shallow." This is when it appears that Princess is about to undergo another panic attack and Chance understands this. While this is a very important line for his character, most people only remember the fact that he basically threw Princess out of bed in the first place. I believe there is a distinction between the two acts. For the latter, this could be seen as a form of laziness on Princess' part. There really is no reason for her not to be able to get out of bed herself. So Chance really saw no reason to actually help her. Sure it's a dick move but it is implied that Princess is actually able to get up from being on the floor by herself which is much harder than getting out of bed. This would show that she didn't need help after all. However, in the former he sees something truly wrong with her. He understands that she may be in trouble and his nicer side comes out to help her back in bed. "Unmistakable sympathy... however shallow" is a way to show that this side of him doesn't come out often and it isn't very strong but it does exist. He even goes to offer her more oxygen and she now becomes the rude one shouting "no" at him. All he was trying to do was help.
     Let's go back to the beginning of the scene where Princess is claiming she can't breath and requires the use of her oxygen tank. First off, how extreme do panic attacks need to be to require an actual tank of oxygen? That's a serious question I have. The point I was about to make was how when requested for him to get the oxygen tank, Chance actually remembers here it is and why she needs it. He rushes to the case and attempts to open it. Sure he might not have remembered the combination to the case it was in but it doesn't erase his effort to help her. This is another instance where Princess is the rude one in the relationship, not Chance. She begins to berate him on this placement and storage of the tank questioning him "Why in the hell did you lock it up in that case?", he then explains how he believed that she wanted it in there and she continues to talk down to him as if he wanted her to die on purpose. My conclusion: Princess is the rude one, not Chance.

Princess, what's her deal?

     So Princess is kind of this super mysterious character right now. We don't know much about her nor do we really understand her motivations very well. Her character is very dramatic, I guess this is understandable considering she was an actress, and pretends to be this weak and feeble person when in reality she is not. Throughout the scene all I could picture was this has-been that is struggling to cope with the fact that her career is over. She turns to life's more dangerous pleasures to try and forget how much of a failure she has become. She constantly repeats how she just wants to forget. And everytime she says it she takes a drink of vodka. She doesn't just want to forget she wants to get drunk (keep in mind she just woke up and she's drinking vodka in the morning). Chance and her later talk about how she can't remember anything and how Chance does not believe in amnesia and she states "Neither do I. But you have to believe a thing that happens to you.", this isn't medical amnesia. She's just hungover from the day before! She got drunk and can't remember anything!

     Many people are picturing her as the victim in this scene but I strongly disagree. I do not believe Chance is taking advantage of her, I believe it's the other way around. Her character is a ravid acoholic and sex addict which many people incorrectly stated that Chance was taking advantage of her. This is made evident during the last part of the scene. As Chance tries to blackmail Princess into helping him get a job, she completely turns the table on him by seducing him into bed. How can you conclude that Chance is the one taking advantage of the situation?
     Furthermore, Princess paid for Chance's services, he isn't doing anything that he was not asked to do. He even goes through the trouble of packing her bags for her, which we learned he did when she calls him a "bastard" for packing her oxygen tank in the wrong bag. I say be glad he even remembered where he put it lady. I think she's extremely rude to Chance when he try's to help her, however sometimes he does deserve it. All-in-all I believe that Princess is the rude and selfish one of the two. I mean, just look at her fake name: PRINCESS. What kind of self-centered, arrogant person does it take to come up with the fake name of Princess. Any way, I hope you get the point.